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Name: Aunt Nancy    Date Entered: 2007-02-19 17:30:27
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I could not let this day go by without going to this website in rememberance of Alicia. Today marks the one year anniversary of her leaving us. I re-read all the memories that various friends and family wrote and they brought back some wonderful thoughts of what Alicia was all about. She was truly a remarkable person and she will always be in our hearts. With love to Jerry, Jordan, Jonah, Tessa, Butch & Gail (her parents) and Jodi (her sister). You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Aunt Nancy
Name: Ellen and Sara Ramsay    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 18:02:17
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Thinking of you and your family.
Name: Amy and Gary Heimberg    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 18:01:25
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We will miss Alicia very much...her laugh, her wit and smile that will always stay in our memories.
With sincerest sympathies,
Amy, Gary, Rachel and Allison Heimberg
Name: Karen Gallup    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 18:00:13
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Jerry and family,
Although I never actually met Alicia, I came to know her through the Edwin McCain websites.
We'd become friends through the years and, her fighting spirit and positive attitude inspired many of us.
We were always going to attend a concert together 'one of these days,'...sadly, that day will never come now.
I'm very sorry about that as I'd always hoped it would happen.

In July of 2004 my niece was diagnosed with Breast Cancer.
Immediately, I heard from Alicia with offers of support for both myself and, my niece.
With all that she herself was dealing with, I found that to speak volumes about her and her character.
Know that she will be missed by those of us that 'knew' her...even only virtually.
We were all blessed to have had her in our lives and, she will be greatly missed.

There have been many kind words shared about Alicia on both the Edwin website and, the MSN Edwin Mccain Fans website.
Hopefully, they will comfort you all, as they have all of us.

You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Name: Kandy and Taylor Wigington    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:58:33
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Jordan, Jerry, Tessa and Jonah,
It's been a long times since Jordan and Taylor were on the same Classics basketball team coached by Jerry. Since then we relocated to San Diego and seem so out of touch. We heard about Alicia and our deepest sympathies to you all at this time. Alicia was such a good mother and surrogate mother to her children and children's friends.
Taylor and I walk for breast cancer every year and this year we will honor Alicia as well as my mother and all those whom have passed away from women's cancer in our walk.
Bless you all...
Name: sandra and frank ymbert    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:57:22
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jerry and childern , may god be with all of you , we loved alicia with all our hearts for so very long , and she will be in our menory for the rest of our livies. she was one of a kind with love and happiness,beauty and love for all who ever came across her path.we are very proud to have known, and loved her sandra ymbert
Name: Randy Wase    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:56:13
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Alicia was such a presence in every space she entered. She had such spirit and enthusiasm for everything. She was always fun and funny. She will truly be missed by everyone who had the opportunity to know her.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family,
Randy Wase & Philip Goodwin
Name: Kathy Yazinka    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:55:13
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To Alicia's family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I had known Alicia just the last few years getting to know her through our love of Edwin McCain's music. I finally had the pleasure of meeting her and Jerry at a concert at the Mann Center in Philly during the summer of '04. She blew me away with that smile and her ability to enjoy the moment. I recall saying to the person I was with 'Wow...isn't Alicia great!'

The last two years, during the Breast Cancer walk in my hometown, I wore Alicia's name on the back of my shirt and walked in her honor. I will continue to do so in the future. I will miss her friendship but she'll always be with me in spirit.
Kathy
Name: Margi Davies    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:50:24
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To Alicia's family..
I was sad to hear of Alicia's passing, I never had the honor to meet her but,as Alicia, I am an Edwin fan and the music brought us together with a common bond. I will always remember her spirit and smile. She was brave and fought a valiant battle. She is at peace now and may your memories guide you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Margi Davies
Name: mark creagh    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:49:38
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Jerry and family,
I am so sorry to here of your loss. I met alicia before an edwin show at bbkings in nyc. We only spoke for a few moments and she treated me as if she had known me for years. we talked about edwin of course, and our daughters who loved the same edwin song ( little girls ). I will always remember her smile and wonderful attitude. she was a special person who just lit up the room with that great smile. I am happy to have met her and will miss her. My heart goes out to all of you. your all in my prayers.
Name: nanci underwood    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:48:27
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Dear Jordan and family, we will truly miss your mom and her smile. With dearest sympathy and love, nanci and audrey underwood
Name: Cindy Semelsberger    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:47:24
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To all of Alicia's family;
I'm so sorry for your loss, I 'know' Alicia through Edwin Mccain's music, we both drew so much comfort and happiness from his music. I only met her briefly at a concert, but her warm and loving way has always stayed with me. May you find much comfort from all your wonderful memories of her caring ways. With heartfelt sympathy, Cindy Semelsberger
Name: Trish Schuman    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:46:25
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Dear Jerry, Jordan, Jonah and Tessa,

Alicia's spirit will always be remembered and cherished by all who knew and loved her. I think of her every time I read this: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, 'WOO HOO what a ride!'

...and what a fabulous ride Alicia had!

May God Bless you all,

Love,
Trish and Ron Schuman
Name: Laura Jones    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:45:08
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Jerry, Jordan, Jonah & Tessa; and Mr. and Mrs. Cassell,

I am so sorry for the loss of your Wife, Mom and Daughter. I had the chance to meet all of you when Alicia & Jerry graciously gave me a bed to crash in after many Edwin shows, and I wish I had Mr. McCain's gift of words right now.

I met Alicia shortly before she was diagnosed, at a show in New Hampshire. From the moment we met, it seemed like we had been friends forever, it was that easy and comfortable. I admired her love of life and her ability to just 'go for it' and enjoy every minute and every experience.

She was in my life a relatively short time, and from a distance, but I feel so honored and blessed to have had her spirit touch my world. My only regret is that I was so far away during the times that she, and maybe you, could have used some help. And, of course, that I did not make it down to see her more recently. That fire and fight that she had kind of made me believe that she would go on forever, I guess.

I will never, ever forget Alicia or the things I learned from her. Little things like Echinacea Tea really helps when I have Bronchitis; and big things like I shouldn't worry my life away, and some things that are only felt in my heart.

She fought and worked and endured so much to stay here with us, and I know that if she touched everyone like she touched me, she will always be here. I'll never hear another Edwin song without a tear for her.

You will all be in my prayers.

Much love, Laura
Name: Suzanne Keller    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:43:48
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Dear Guiton and Cassell families,
We were very sorry to hear about your families loss. We go back to the days when Molly and Jordan and Alicia and I were all in preschool (in one form or another). Alicia taught me how to juggle - love, life, motherhood, career and playground duty; how to keep a song in your heart, a dance in your step, and a laugh not far from your lips - because you never knew when you might need one. And everyday may not be the day to start a sentence with a conjuction, but everyday the first thing you should do is decide to be in a good mood. With heartfelt condolences, Suzanne Keller, B. J. Sadoff and Molly Sadoff
Name: Michele Vivas    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:42:51
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Dear Jodi and Guiton family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Alicia once, on a week night in San Francisco, at what else, an Ed concert. As a friend and fan of Jodi I came to meet the sister of a woman I admire and love. I was expecting to meet a weak ill woman suffering from cancer, What I met was a smiling bouncing force of nature who spent most of the evening running from the front stage to the back of the hall where we tired folk were leaning on the bar. I'll never forget her smile, her energy.
sincerely,
Michele Vivas
Name: Yaz    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:41:37
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Stef,
Amazing....just amazing! I've got tears of sadness coming from one eye and tears of joy out of the other. Thank you for sharing this with us.

We've added a photo of Alicia before her illness to the memorial site. Just look at her!

http://groups.msn.com/EdwinMcCainFans/inmemoryofaliciaguiton.msnw

Kathy
Name: stefharris    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:31:59
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Hi again everyone!

I thought I would post about the memorial service I attended for Alicia today. It might get a little lengthy so I will apologize in advance for that.

I entered the large church foyer and found tears immediately springing to my eyes. Edwin music was playing in the sanctuary. There were picture boards all over... pictures of Alicia with her family... with Edwin... some of her as a child, some of her as a young adult and recent pictures... some of her with hair and some without. I spoke to her husband briefly and marveled and how he was holding himself together. He said, 'Wait until the end of the service. You're really going to like it.' I wondered what was in store.

I couldn't have prepared myself for the outpouring of love for this wonderful woman. Her cousin and aunt sang 'You Are Mine' while another male cousin played the guitar and sang a song he wrote for her called, fittingly, 'Alicia'. Such powerful performances. The pastor told her life story (where she was born and went to college and stuff) but he had obviously known Alicia and her family for some time. He interjected funny things she said or did as he went, as only a friend could. Two of her friends (Sue Ellen and John) went next, one following the other. They both wanted to tell stories about her but agreed that some of the funniest were too 'off color' to tell in church. They instead sang the praises of her extensive volunteer work at school and in pretty much every sports team around.

Then they asked the congregation if anyone wanted to say something? The pastor said they would just take a few stories. One woman was a friend of Alicia's and told a story of how Alicia played a practical joke on a friend just two weeks ago. Another woman said that she taught Alicia in tenth grade. A friend of hers stood (Amy, that I had met with Alicia at an Edwin show) and recognized and praised the incredible bond that Alicia and Gerry had until the very end. Even some neighborhood children went on about how she would hide in the bushes on Halloween to jump out and 'scare our butts off'! It occurred to me that, besides her friend Marina, I might be the only EdHead in the congregation... so... I raised my hand.

The pastor handed me the microphone and I told everyone how I knew Alicia from Edwin shows. I had mentioned in my original post that we went to our first Edwin show separately but ended up sitting at the same table. In a later post, Tina mentioned the story of us going to North Carolina to see Edwin at Cat's Cradle. Alicia had asked me (since she had had a chemo treatment that day) if I would take her back to our room if she got tired. I said I would. It ended up that I was the one who was saying, 'Alicia, are you ready to go?') I told them all about how we went to the show and then, in going back to OUR hotel, noticed that we were following the bus. How excited were WE when we realized that not only was Edwin staying in the same hotel, but in the room right below ours?! We acted like 10 year old girls, giggling and peeking out the curtains... all with Alicia leading the way. I was glad to have been able to share it and I think it kind of 'rounded out' the different ways everyone there had been bonded to her.

Alicia's best friend from college was the last one to speak. She shared that she was afraid she couldn't hold it together so she had worn her Edwin t-shirt under her dress to help her remember to hold it together for Alicia. She never once broke down and the words she said were beautiful. She told about how they had met 22 years ago in an ice cream shop and mentioned things they had talked about lately. She used people's names when telling us what Alicia told her had meant the most. She mentioned lots of things including things she had shared about her children and how proud she was of her friends' accomplishments (like Marina and her marathon). She finished by saying that she had a letter that she wanted to read. She said she thought that Alicia would want the service to end this way.

So... here it comes... who do you think the letter was from? I know you've guessed that it was from Edwin. Incidentally-- he also sent flowers that were sitting right next to her picture on the altar. It was so touching and heartfelt. Among other things, he said that he and the band see thousands of faces but none that he loved seeing as much as Alicia's. He said that he would never again be able to come to the DC area without thinking about her. As her friend read the words, a movie screen dropped down and, after she was done, played the 'Shooting Stars' song from the DVD Tinsel and Tapshoes. There was a page inserted into the memorial pamphlet with the words to 'Shooting Stars' on it.

Not sure if you can picture it or if I've done the scene justice with my words but I was bawling. Not just crying... like tear drops spilling over but really, really crying. What an amazing thing to be honored like that by Edwin. And how special was Alicia to have touched a performer like him that sees zillions of people in a year? I left there feeling sad and yet renewed. It was one of the most precious things I've ever had the chance to experience.

Tomorrow (Friday, February 24) would have been Alicia's 42nd birthday. Next Friday, (March 3) Edwin is coming back to the DC area. To the Birchmere... in Alexandria, Virginia... the place where it all started those years ago... when Alicia was whole. Alicia's friend Marina is coming to the show and bringing Alicia's two daughters, Jordan and Tessa. I intend on getting a front row table and saving the seat closest to the stage. She might not be sitting in it... but she will be there... whole once again.

Love,

Stef
Name: mccain&presley    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:24:37
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I've been away from the board for a couple of weeks & when I logged in, this was the 1st thread that caught my attention...that was on Wednesday I think. I came across this while at work & literally had to stop reading the posts. Stef & Lauren especially, your words about Alicia really touched me. I've been wanting to post, but until now haven't really been able to do so without getting too upset to finish. I met Alicia only briefly at the Cats Cradle in April of 2004, and had only a few conversations with her on the board, but her impression upon me was a permenant one.

The news of Alicia's passing seemed to hit me really hard. I didn't understand it at first, but I think now I do. I think what's bothering me so much is the guilt that I feel. Guilt for having my health & that of my children and not living life to the fullest.

We're probably all guilty of doing it...putting off until tomorrow,telling our children we'll do it 'later', letting the 'little' daily struggles of life obscure what is most important, not saying I Love you , as often as we should...

I've never forgotten where my priorites lie, I think I'm just guilting of not living my life to the fullest. Being a single parent can be financially overwhelming sometimes & I think of all the hours I've been spending working, instead of spending with my family. And for what? Another vacation? A new outfit? A new vacuum? Whatever 'it' is can't possibly be as important as what I have waiting for me at home.

Thank you Alicia...for reminding me who I want to be & how I want to live my life. You'll continue to live on through each of those lives you touched.

Much Love,
Shelly
Name: kev324    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:22:41
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I never had the pleasure of meeting Alicia either, but had several conversations with her. I thought she was such a kind person, really loved Edwin's music. She sent me to an Edwin concert in Chicago and only wanted Edwin music in return. I will be sure to keep her and her family in my thoughts and prayers.

Kevin
Name: Marina    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:21:43
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Thanks to everyone who has said prayers for the family. They are so overjoyed with the wonderful response. After tomorrows service I will let you all know how the celebration of her life is.

Thanks again.

Marina
Name: Laura    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:21:07
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Marina &/or Louisa,

I had hoped to make it down to the service tomorrow morning, but things are just not working out. When I spoke with Jerry, he told me that it was going to be a celebration of her life, and would include lots of Edwin music.

I know this might seem weird, but for those of us who loved her and can't be there, could you let us know about the service, and what songs are included? I'd appreciate it so much, even if you could e-mail me. Thanks. Laura
Name: Louisa    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:20:18
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There is nothing more calming then knowing she was listening to Edwin in the last moments of her life, while surrounded by family and friends.

God Bless, Louisa
Name: LouLou    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:19:37
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I met Alicia a few years ago through my closest friend Marina...it was a short time after that I was headed with the crew to my first Edwin show. Alicia was so nice and tried to introduce me to everyone she knew..ofcourse telling them that I was a Edwin 'virgin', I was welcomed with open arms! We went to the state theater in Virginia, it was a great time...Alicia was a wild woman! Ofcourse we could not go home until we saw Edwin at the end, as he went to get on the bus. We waited for what seemed like forever in the snowy rain that night and then here comes Edwin, he took a zillion pictures with us & chatted like old friends, I was so stunned! It was awesome! Even though Alicia wasn't feeling so well that night, her whole persona changed. She was not a woman fighting breast cancer, she was a lively, passionate, music loving Edwin fan! And she did it so well.....

This is such a huge loss, my prayers go out to her friends, family and fellow Edwin fans....
Name: tcmalko    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:18:31
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I am very sorry for the heartache that Alicia's family is experiencing. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Name: Nancy    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:15:48
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My thoughts and prayers go out to Alicia's family and friends. May she rest in peace and may Edwin be the soundtrack of heaven.

Nancy
Name: Anna    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:14:43
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hey all .... I never met Alicia ... I'm not even sure if we even posted on the same thread on this board, but I am very familiar with her face, her smile, her story and her positive vibrations. How awesome is that?! To leave a mark on someone you never actually interacted with?! I haven't been able to check in on the boards as regularly as I used to, so I only learned by seeing her photo as the Pic of the Day on the MSN site. And immediately knew there would be a long tribute HERE, and wanted to be sure to reserve proper time to read each and every post - every tribute and every word, she deserved every bit of it.
My thoughts and prayers go out to her family & friends, and thanks to her EMB friends for posting such loving tributes to her to honor her memory.
~Anna~
Name: Marina    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:13:56
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I was sucked into the Edwin shows a few years ago when Alicia brought me to the Birchmere. I then understood why she needed to follow him all over the east coast and beyond. I fell in love with all that goes along with the Edwin shows. The people she introduced me to along the way were all so great. She spoke of you often when preparing for an upcoming event.

I will never foget the prep. that went into an Edwin show. First of all we always had to leave the house at least 4 hours prior to the opening. I would arrive at her home and she would be trying several different shirts for the occasion. The ride to the show was filled with excitement with thoughts of what great stories we would get out of Edwin. Then we would stand outside in the rain, sleet, or snow to be the first to pick a seat.

The shows were always amazing and there was always a phone call to her daughter Jordan when 'I'll be' would come on and to Tessa when 'little girl' was on.

The night would end while waiting for Edwin to come out just to get a hug and a new photo for the album. She also had a thing for buying him shirts or even making flags for the black pearl(edwins tour bus).

Alicia is a remarkable woman who lived life to the fullest every day. She never left anything unsaid or undone. She was always the life of the party. She was a beloved mother, wife, and a dear friend to me in the 6 years that I had the honor to be her friend. Her memory and spirit will live on with that remarkable smile and her huge heart. Her bravery during the last few years is so inspiring to me and many that knew her.

I hope to come on March 3rd. I will bring my daughters and maybe hers too. I extend an invitation to all that know and love her as I did to join us that evening where for me it all began.

I love you alicia! Thanks for the memories!

Your friend Marina
Name: purple364    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:12:31
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AMEN.

I REMEMBER TODAY, ON THE 90TH BIRTHDAY OF MY GRANDMOTHER WHO IS WITH THE LORD, SHE SAID, 'LORD, OPEN THE DOORS', AND DIED VERY PEACEFULLY.
THAT IS ALSO ON HER HEADSTONE.
MAY ALICIA TOO, REST IN PEACE WITH THE LORD.
Name: Angel    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:11:23
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I'm so sorry for the loss we all bear this week with Alicia's passing (into a greater place). I didn't know Alicia personally, but saw her in pictures on the boards.... I know her smile struck all of us and I'm sure everyone noticed in those pictures how big Edwin's smile is when he's with her!!! He loved her very much and it shows.
Edwin. you are a hero to her and all of us. and I'm sure Alicia is saying 'Rock On Edwin.'

God Bless You Alicia
Name: Cindy    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:10:35
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You did such a wonderful job!! What a Big Happy smile she always had on her face around Edwin, soooooooo happy that she found Edwin's gift to help her through. Too Sad But we all have to remember her warm ways and celebrate her life. Thanks for helping us do that!!!!

Hugs,
Cindy
Name: Kagy    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:09:26
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I can't help but think, while reading all these loving, kind words, how lucky Alicia was.
She, in her short time on earth, touched many lives and, taught us all a few lessons along the way.
I think we all would like to be remembered someday in such a loving way.
These words speak VOLUMES about her.

Thanks everyone for sharing your memories through words and pictures.
I'm sorry that Alicia's and my show never came...it was always 'one of these days.'
I missed the chance to actually meet her but, I'll definitely be thinking about her as I listen to or see EMB.

I posted this link in October, for Breast Cancer Awareness month but, thought it appropriate to post it again.
It takes a mere minute of your time and, helps fund mammagrams for those that can't afford one otherwise.
http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/tpc/ERB_022106_BCS
It's a small thing we can all do (they allow one per day, per computer) in her honor.

God bless you Alicia, you are at peace and, will always, always be remembered.

Karen
Name: Marsha    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:06:53
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I am sorry to hear about Alicia. I did not know her, but my thoughts and prayers are with all of her family and friends.

Marsha
Name: Jo Anne    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:06:11
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You would be correct, Leah.

As Jules stated, this is a very caring group of people. In Alicia's honor, let's keep it that way & do everything we can, every day to look out for one another.

I think Alicia would like that.

Jo Anne
Name: purple364    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:05:23
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i think we all are jules...
Name: Jules    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:04:34
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Laura....

I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes...

Alicia was truely blessed as well...to have you for a friend.
Jules
Name: Valerie    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:03:10
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I just had a thought after re-reading some of these wonderful tributes and memories of Alicia:

In memory of Alicia and others who have fought the fight against cancer, some surviving and some now in heaven, I will make a contribution to the cancer charity in my area where I live. I did this after my grandmother's death from cancer as well. Maybe someday they will find a cure to this terrible thing that they call cancer.

God bless,

Valerie
Name: Laura    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 17:00:28
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I met Alicia years ago through Steve, who I met at an Edwin show in Pittsburgh. The three of us met up for the Fishhouse Show in New Hampshire, and Alicia and I hit it off immediately. At that time, she was primarily a Hootie fan, but Steve and I kept telling her that once she saw Edwin, she’d be hooked. Little did we know! I had told her how amazing Edwin’s fans are… 'they’ll do things like take your picture with Edwin and send you a copy!' And, that happened to her. But, it was enlarged to a 5 X 7 and had been autographed. I have had a copy of that picture on my fridge ever since.

She jumped into the Edhead role with both feet. Soon she was meeting people at shows, and taking newbies to shows, and putting up posters for shows. She went to any and every show she could, I think. She arranged vacations around Edwin shows, and took her husband and kids along. She played hostess to me countless times when I’d drive down to the D.C. area and spend the night at her house after a show – both of us permagrinning.. One time I was so sick, and she sent me off with a box of echinacea tea and instructions to get my vitamin C. I couldn’t even begin to tell you how many times she called me from shows… but these weren’t just a song or two, these were entire shows! She’d leave the phone laying on the table, and I could hear everything, even her singing along and laughing at Edwin’s stories.

Almost everyone has commented about that smile, and that is how we should remember her, because to me, that is who she was. In spite of the fact that she adored Edwin’s music, the one song that will always remind me of her is by Jason Mraz – the one about I won’t worry my life away'. That was her. She didn’t seem to let things get her down, even things like breast cancer. I remember when she told me she had been diagnosed, it was 'I’ve been having some health problems.' And, even after radiation and chemo, she still stayed positive and determined to fight. Yes, she’d try the experimental chemo trials; yes, she loved the bandanas with the rhinestones. She found good in everything. She found humor everywhere. And what an amazing fight and spirit she showed her kids.

She bought Edwin that 'Positive Vibrations' shirt that we see on stage now and then. I always thought she meant it as what Edwin gives to us. But now, it’ll be all Alicia. She really was one of the most positive and upbeat people I have ever met. And, one of the best friends. I’m so glad and so honored that she touched my life. It will never be the same.

Alicia, go get your wings and accept your post as guardian angel of EMB. See you at the shows.

P.S. Jules, Amen to what you said about Ed-friends. This is by far the coolest thing I've ever been a part of.
Name: Jules    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 16:58:29
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I, too, never met Alicia...but have seen the pictures many times and the posts. Reading what you, her friends have to say, makes me wish I had known her. I know her friends and family are touched just as I am by the words written here. The loss within the EMB family is felt deeply. I agree that Alicia is in a better place. To her family and friends I send my prayers.

I for one am truely thankful for the friendships that have sprung from the love of Edwin's music. This situation just reinforces it. I feel blessed for each friend I have made...and I hope each of you knows how special you are to me.

With love,
Jules
Name: Kurt    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 16:57:45
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I've never met the lady and I think I can make a solid bet about one thing by looking at the pictures everyone had posted of her at Edwin's shows. Every picture shows her with a huge smile, so you know Edwin's music made her happy.

There's one more person spreading the Ed in a whole new territory now.

Peace,

Rest In

No Pun or offense Intended
Name: Daffy    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 16:52:47
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I met Alicia at that Cats Cradle show in NC and all I could think of was how happy she seemed to be for someone who was enduring so much. I pray for strength like that every day. My sympathies to her husband and children. ‘let her in Peter, for I know she is very tired’ We'll miss you Alicia. God Bless.
daphne
Name: stefharris    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 16:51:47
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It is with a very heavy heart that I let you know that Alicia Guiton, one of Edwin's biggest fans, passed away yesterday. After a valiant (and long) fight, she lost her battle with cancer.

I met Alicia at our first (for both of us!) Edwin show at the Birchmere in Alexandria, Virginia. We both love the man and the music and she followed him to lots of places. I'd be willing to bet she's seen over 100 Edwin shows since that first one just a few years ago.

Her husband told me that she had had brain surgery in December and that Edwin sent her flowers. ‘She loved that he did that,’ he said. He also said that she was listening to Edwin as she passed away.

Edwin is coming back to the Birchmere on Friday, March 3. It is going to be especially hard for me to be there without her. Even when we didn't sit together, you could look at Alicia and know that she was in that song with him... whichever one it was... there aren't any she doesn't know.

I fell in love with her warmth and easy spirit and will miss her terribly.

Thanks for letting me share.

Love,

Stef
Name: The Frengals    Date Entered: 2006-04-24 16:50:19
Comment:
Alicia touched so many lives in so many ways and was always doing something for others, especially children. She was just so natural and down to earth it was impossible not to love her. Leigh summed it up best when she simply said, ‘she was awesome!’

Our thoughts are with you all - we are so very sorry for your loss.
Name: Valerie    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:55:00
Comment:
What a special tribute of memories and thoughts about Alicia. I never knew her personally, but I definitely wish that I had met her at some point. She was a very special person to many people. She will be missed very deeply. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. I wish them comfort in this very hard time. My Grandmother recently lost the fight to breast cancer, so I can sympathize with how Alicia's family must be feeling at this point (at least to some degree). I hope they know how much Alicia was cared and thought about. God Bless and take care.
Valerie
Name: mark    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:47:49
Comment:
I to am sad to here this news. I met alicia at BB kings before the show. We were all waiting to get in, She just started Talking to me about Edwin. I had no idea who she was and she just started talking to me as if she had known me for years. We talked for a little while about our daughters and how they loved the same edwin song, little girls. I could tell after a few short moments that this was a sweet, nice and happy women. her smile said it all. I am happy to have met her, and I will miss her. my heart goes out to her family. I will pray for them all. mark
Name: Ricky    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:46:59
Comment:
I remember Alicia on the boards as well.
She was a special person who will be missed my many.
Ricky
Name: Joette    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:46:19
Comment:
What a wonderful tribute to what must have been an amazing spirit. My sympathies to all.
Joette
Name: purple364    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:44:01
Comment:
amen, she went out singing edwin, there's nothing better than that.
Name: wilsonjg    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:43:08
Comment:
...just look at the expression on her face in the photo with Edwin...........

That is how I'm sure all of her friends and all of us should remember her as........
Name: MyMysterE    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:42:12
Comment:
I never knew Alicia personally just through the boards and still I feel like I have lost someone very close. She was a tribute to anyone fighting the battle of cancer; you always saw her with a lovely smile on her face even though she was enduring treatments that most of us can never image. I am so glad that I was blessed with knowing her through the boards. My heart and prayers go out to her family and friends; I know your grief is deep. Alicia you will be missed but we will see you in heaven were there will be an Edwin concert for you everyday.

Love
Name: Yaz    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:40:50
Comment:
My heart is so heavy. But you have to know that God needed someone special so he took Alicia. My heart goes out to her husband, girls and family. And to all of us who had the pleasure of knowing her, we have been blessed. I'll never forgot that smile and her outstanding disposition.

The MSN site will be working on a memorial page to be up soon. If anyone has something they would like to say or post on the page, please send it to either Karen or I.
Group hug,
Kathy
Name: kittykat    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:40:06
Comment:
I'm so touched by the love and dedication shown here!!! I want to extend my heartfelt sympathy to her family and friends. Such a wonderful person, she really touched and warmed others that she knew and met. Bye Alica, Rest in Peace!!
Hugs,
Cindy
Name: LakiynU    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:39:03
Comment:
Thanks to Stef for posting this originally, when I found out I don't think I really could have.

I met Alicia at my second Edwin concert. I was speechless at meeting him and I really didn't know what to do with myself. We were all waiting outside fo the State Theater, and Alicia and Stef took me under their wings and got me through the night without making too much of a fool of myself. From that point on, it was not just attending Edwin concerts, it was meeting up with friends and sharing in an experience that means so much to us all. Over the past two years I have always had Alicia's smiles and welcoming friendship to which to look forward, and without them I know it will never be the same. And not that it should; Alicia was special and she made the things she did and the people she did them with feel special as well. I'm miss her laugh, her dedication, her spirit, and the crazy gifts she always came up with to give Edwin. My thoughts go out to her children, her husband, and all of her friends, and I know this is no small thing as she has touched so many during her life. To Alicia, loving mother, wife, friend, and member of the Edwin family. I celebrate her life and I mourn the loss of it, as it came too soon, but it was not surrendered without a fight. Alicia, my friend, I will miss you.

Thanks all, for letting me share.

~Lauren
Name: tinnlizzy    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:38:06
Comment:
I am deeply sorry to hear this news. I never met Alicia, but I grew to know her through the boards and I was always deeply touched with seeing how happy she was in the pictures of her and Edwin.

My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.

Liz
Name: kidznurse    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:37:14
Comment:
I am very sorry to hear of Alicia's passing, but I am glad she is resting now in peace in God's arms. She fought a valiant fight, one that I could never imagine dealing with. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and everyone who personally knew her.
Sincerely, Margi

Name: ydnim    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:36:24
Comment:
Though I did not know her, I am sorry for the loss. Alicia's friends and family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Name: Kagy    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:35:25
Comment:
I too was deeply saddened by this news.
Although I never met Alicia in person, we were fellow fans and had developed a friendship through the years.
She was supportive for both myself and my niece when my niece was diagnosed with Breast Cancer a year and a half ago.
Since then, and long before that, she fought a valiant fight while managing to remain positive.
She's been, and will continue to be an inspiration to me and all those she touched.
Her family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Thanks for sharing these wonderful pictures showing her with a smile, enjoying EMB was one of the things she loved and, it brought her into all of our lives.

Karen
Name: purple364    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:34:35
Comment:
i also remember her from a MD show i attended. she recognized me, and came up and said hi. i too will be at the VA and MD shows on march 3rd, and 4th. i am sure edwin will remember her there also...she will be there with us in spirit.
Name: sweet shame    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:33:26
Comment:
I was also saddened by the news about Alicia. Despite whatever her condition was at the time I saw her, she was always very positive and happy. I'll never forget the road trip me, Stef and Alicia took to Cat's Cradle in NC back in 2004. We were running around like a bunch of young girls giggling and laughing because Edwin was staying in the room directly beneath us! We were spying out of the curtains on them as they unpacked the van. Remember that Stef?? LOL! I am sorry that she's gone but I'm sure she's in a better place. And I'm sure she'll be there with us in spirit at the Edwin show next week.
Name: gsochick    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:32:30
Comment:
Stef ~

My thoughts & prayers are with you & Alicia's family at this most difficult time.

May God Bless you all.

Jo Anne
Name: judy barbush    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:27:28
Comment:
Alicia was a beautiful, intelligent
woman who loved her family immensely.
She will be remembered as a great neice, who was full of fun and had a great wit and a big heart.
Although we will miss her greatly, we are so thankful to have had her presence in our family.

Name: laura and David quam    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:26:28
Comment:
Dear Gerry, Jordan, Jonah and Tessa,
We will miss Alicia, her wonderful personality, contagious laugh and beautiful smile. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Quam family
David, Laura, Justin, Will & Eric
Name: Karin and Marc Swissman    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:25:52
Comment:
We are so sorry for your loss, we will always remember Alicia's warm smile and friendly personality.

Our thoughts are with you all.
Name: Leslie and Howie Stein    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:23:34
Comment:
Alicia will be remembered by us as someone who fought her own war, straight on, with amazing courage and a smile on her face.

Our thoughts are with you and the many, many people in this community that she touched.

Howie, Leslie, and Andrew
Name: Sandra and Guillermo Wainer    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:21:29
Comment:
Dear Jerry, Tessa, Jordan and Jonah,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We will miss Alicia, specially her humor and vibrant personality. Her fighting spirit, her courage and her wonderful disposition towards life will remain with us for ever.
The Wainer Family
Sandra, Willie, Nicolle and Julian
Name: Dona Allen    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:20:47
Comment:
I remember calling you over the summer, and you returned my call from your vacation in Maine. You said that you were never happier and that Maine was so beautiful. My hopes and prayers are that you are now once again happy - eternally happy and that your days are filled with eternal beauty. God bless you for your strength and courage. We are all a little stronger because of you.
Name: Edna DelToro    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:19:45
Comment:
To the family of Alicia Ann:
Her time on earth was short but she will live forever in your heart, your mind and soul. She loved you to the last minute of her life and will watch over you forever. May God bless and give you strength.
Name: Anita Ymbert    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:18:56
Comment:
I remember you as a teenager coming over, then seeing you again at a basketball game with your husband Jerry coaching the team was great! Your bright smile will be missed. Love Anita Ymbert
Name: Pat & Steve Gaske and family    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:18:11
Comment:
We are so very sorry for your loss. In the months and years ahead, we hope it will be comforting to remember how many lives Alicia touched, and how many wonderful memories she left each one of us.
Name: YOUR FRIEND    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:17:26
Comment:
This Poem is dedicated to Alicia

Alicia Did Not Die

Do not stand at her grave and forever weep.
She is not there; She does not sleep.
She is the thousand winds that blow.
She is the diamond glints on snow.
She is the sunlight on ripened grain.
She is the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush, She will be the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
She is the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at her grave and forever cry.
She is not there. She did not die.

I admire her courage! I have NEVER met such a women. I will keep her children, husband & family in my prayers. Please be strong during this troubling time. She is watching over the all of you! Just know that she is in a better place.
Sorry for your lost!
Name: Justin, Amy, and Tyler Keesey    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:16:06
Comment:
We are very sorry for your loss,
you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Name: Karen Marich    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:15:08
Comment:
The memory of Alicia's beautiful smile and warm heart will be with us all. What an inspirational woman that I am so blessed to have known. Alicia will be sorely missed by many, but the wonderful impact she has left us with will far outlast the tears. May God bless ALL of Alicia's family during this difficult time.
Name: Phyllis, Michael, Melissa & Max Hirschman    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:14:22
Comment:
To the Guiton Family: The first time we met Alicia was when we walked up to the softball field and watched her run the bases without her shoes and socks. Her vibrant personality and laughter that day will be with us always. This is how we will always remember her. You all are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Name: Lynn, Marty, Mitchell, and Jeffrey Nover    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:13:27
Comment:
Our whole family was touched by Alicia's energy, enthusiasm, and feistiness. She always had a quick smile and a laugh to share with each one of us. We are so sorry that that a person with her zest for life had to leave us too soon. We will keep you in our prayers and continue to enjoy Alicia in our memories.
Name: Pat and Brenda Tubbs    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:12:43
Comment:
Jerry, Jordan, Jonah, and Tessa,
Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Your mom was a very strong and couragous woman. She will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
The Tubbs Family
Name: frank and sandra ymbert    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:12:00
Comment:
gerry and family we have knowen alicia since her 10th grade of hi school , she has been in our hearts and will always be .she was a great person with a heart made of gold.we will miss her but she will see us every day and bless,all of you ,and help you on your days. the ymbert family frank and sandra ymbert sr.
Name: Hoa Tran    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:10:58
Comment:
To the Guiton family,
In the midst of your pain and sorrow, we are thinking of you and wishing you hope.
With deep sympathy, from Hoa Tran and Michele Nguyen
Name: Lori and Dustin Hedrick    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:10:17
Comment:
Please know that you are in our prayers. Hang in there.
Name: Jocelyne & Phil Brunet    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:09:26
Comment:
Alicia is now resting in peace. She has been so brave! To the whole family, our deepest condolences. She was a very special person and we all learned from her.
She was well looked after by a lot of people who loved her.
We will remember her as an example of courage!
Name: Debbie Uslaner    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:08:19
Comment:
I was very sad to hear of Alicia's passing. My heart goes out to you all. Jordan, Jonah and Tess: Think of your Mom often, remember her always and keep her smile with you.
Name: Michael Watkins    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:07:31
Comment:
I am very sorry to hear of Alicia's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to here family.

DHS 82

Name: John Rasnic, Jr.    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:06:42
Comment:
I was blessed to have a cousin like Alicia. She showed me, and everyone else, how to live. I do not want to disappoint.
Name: Aunt Nancy    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:05:17
Comment:
I have avoided doing this as I am so so sad. I cry as I write. I had the privilege of helping to care for Alicia the last two months and I felt honored to be able to be there. There were three of us who rotated, her sister Jodi, her dear friend Aileen and myself. Along with all of her wonderful neighbors and friends we gave her loving care in her home. I will miss her more then I can describe. She was the bravest person I have ever met and she never complained while going through so many harsh treatments. I cry for her children, husband, mother & father & sister who miss her deeply. I know that Alicia is in a better place but it was so hard to lose her. Alicia will always be in our hearts.
Name: Robert, Judy and Sarah Kurnick    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:03:25
Comment:
We were saddened to learn of Alicia Guiton’s passing. We remember her as someone who always had a smile and a kind word for those around her and as someone who brought humor and intelligence to everything she did. Everyone who knew her as a friend and neighbor is poorer for her loss.

Robert, Judy and Sarah Kurnick
Name: John & Sheryl Guardiani    Date Entered: 2006-04-23 08:02:27
Comment:
Jerry, Jordan, Jonah and Tessa; Harry, Gail and Jodi,

We are so sad to hear of your loss. We know Alicia loved you all more than we can comprehend. She was an unbelievably amazing woman. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

In loving memory,
John & Sheryl
Name: Aunt Nancy    Date Entered: 2006-04-10 18:50:53
Comment:
I had the privilege of helping to care for Alicia the last months of her life and I felt honored to be able to be there. There were three of us who rotated, her sister Jodi, her dear friend Aileen and myself. Along with all of her wonderful neighbors and friends we gave her loving care in her home. I will miss her more than I can describe. She was the bravest person I have ever met and she never complained while going through so many harsh treatments. I cry for her children, husband, mother, father & sister who miss her deeply. I know that Alicia is in a better place but it was so hard to lose her. Alicia will always be in our hearts. We have so may wonderful memories of her. May she rest in peace.